Blog # 15: Ano ren ang imong na-buwat para sa Gin'o?

Medyo natameme ako kayna sa mass kaena sa cathedral muro agpakeman si Father sa tanan. Anang pakiman kung "ano ren ang imong na-buwat para sa Gin'o?".


Maski sino ra siguro ang pakiman sa seled y saka minuto o segundo medyo makukurean dang sabaten ang pakeman na dato.


Sa akeng pagmumuni-muni naisip ko ra na sa bawat adlaw matama kitang nabubuwat - kaesan tama o kabay da mali. Pero ang mamaeng importante ikaw nabubwe sa tama - mas matama kang nabubuwat na matinlo kaysa marimo.

Ang Gin'o ing tatawan kita y 365 days o 1 year, dapat manda may b'waten kitang tama sa ateng sadele, sa ateng pamilya, sa ateng masigkataw at pati kanana.


Salamat Gin'o. =)

Blog # 11: Ang Guegma

To achieve self-actualization kailangan mong malampasan 'eto according to Abraham Maslow. Pero tingin mo meron ka ba nito?

1. Friendship - check
2. Family - check
3. Sexual Intimacy - not yet

It takes time, sabi nga nila. Maraming mga bagay ang kailangan munang ipriority tulad ng career at opportunities na darating sa'yo.


Now let's take a look to Erik Erikson's Psychosocial development:


Age: Young Adulthood -- 19 to 40 years
Conflict: Intimacy vs. Isolation
Important Event: Love relationships

Stage Six, Young Adulthood: Intimacy Versus Isolation. Individual experiences a need to achieve an essential quality of intimacy (an ability to care about others and to share experiences with them)in his or her life. After establishing a stable identity, a person is prepared to share meaningful love or deep friendship with others. 75% of college-age men and women rank a good marriage and family life as their primary adult goal (Bachman & Johnson, 1979). And yet, marriage or sexual involvement is no guarantee that intimacy will prevail: Many adult relationships remain superficial and unfulfilling. Failure to establish intimacy with others leads to a deep sense of isolation. The person feels alone and uncared for in life. This circumstance often sets the stage for later difficulties.

The need for intimacy - to care and be cared is indeed a need. Remember you cannot give what you cannot have.

I'm still in this part of the stage and I have lot of chances to experience to love and be love. It is just part of waiting for the right person and grabbing the opportunity to love her.

Remember, that you have many time - time for everything and yes, true love waits.

Blog # 7: Living our dreams

"Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma -- which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice."


 Reflect on this quote by the famous Steve Jobs. Sometimes you will come to a point of realizing - that life's somewhat a routine and appreciating its beauty is just lacking. Maybe because you are not living for the right reason or far from what you passionately want. In life you can't please everyone to like or appreciate you the way you want to be appreciated. But the mere fact, you have your own dream, personality, and unique existence - God wants us to find it in His most wonderful way.


Live for a cause and when you are hearing negative comments from other people prove them wrong and be a successful individual from your own hard work.